Frank MiuccioIT Director
Samantha CloseAlex ForbessJin HuangJillian KwongWilliam McClainLin ZhangEditorial Research Staff
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If you really can forgive them and want to stay married, then reflect on how you might feel if your spouse stays again. Be honest with yourself- this is important. Will you be able to once again summon the energy and courage to pull through? If you answered a resounding "yes," then forge ahead and rebuild your relationship with hope and optimism. Start by envisioning the happy, vibrant relationship you desire. It will help you to have an image of success and aspirations for your marriage that you can discuss. You can use them to channel your energy and work together.Beside the two of you, there's another major consideration. If you have kids or are trying to get pregnant, then take into account the effect that your choices will have on them. It's flat our irresponsible to argue in front of children or allow them to be party to immature conduct.